I used to wonder what it was that had led me to become the gardener and, for lack of a better word, "foodie" that I am today. Why do I sniff and fondle all of my produce, wince at the newest processed food to hit the market, and notice that the supermarket shelves seem to contain more packaging then food these days? Why do I spend hours cultivating the soil in my yard, battle against insects and neighborhood wildlife, and dream of ways to extend my growing season? And why do I feel nothing but perfect contentment every time I visit a local farm, comb through the booths at my local farmer's market, and spend all day cooking up a traditional feast for my friends and family?
As I flipped through the yellowing pages of an old family photo album a few months ago, it struck me that I've become the consumer, gardener, cook (and to a certain extent, husband and parent) that I am now not because of what I've read in the Op-Ed section of the New York Times or seen depicted in a PETA hidden video. I am who I am because of how I was raised by my father. Glued to each page of this album were photos taken during countless food celebrations, fishing excursions, and farm visits that seem to span all of the years of my childhood. Then there were the many trips to Chinatown, outdoor produce markets, and botanical gardens - the sights and smells of which I can still recall vividly. Lastly, there were the photos taken of me and my four siblings playing in our father's wondrous urban vegetable garden, a now mystical place that I long to return to but never will.
As I took that trip down memory lane, I began to realize that over the years, I've slowly developed into a person that's a lot like my father in a way (though not nearly as brave). He was the quintessential Luddite, always insistent on doing things the traditional or what I used to consider the "old-fashioned" way. As a result, all family traditions were strictly observed and ceremoniously carried out. He was a modest person who would rather risk a stomach ache than let any food, good or bad, go to waste. By the same token, he was also someone who knew how to revel in a good meal and often ate and drank to excess. All of these things used to mystify me about my father until I grew to understand that he was of a generation that had witnessed and experienced true human suffering. After the Vietnam War, he saw our family through periods of famine, planned our death-defying escape from a Communist regime, kept us hopeful during our time at the refugee camps, and brought us to the United States in hopes of a better life. I soon realized that if I have had to endure hunger and the type of familial/cultural separation my father had experienced during his lifetime, matters of food and tradition would become all the more important to me as well.
So as I consider the reasons why I strive to live a greener life, I find the ones closest to home to be the most compelling. While issues such as what's wrong with our agricultural industry, what deadly toxins might be lurking in our food, or what is lacking in our current energy policy are matters of urgency on a national and global scale, these things only drive me personally to a certain extent. Ultimately, I grow the vegetables I grow, cook the foods I cook, and live the way I do because I hope to preserve something that was handed down to me by my father many years ago - a tradition of growing one's own food, nurturing one's family, and celebrating one's culture.
A traditional recipe - autumn fruit pie
Footnote - As a new contributor to the Co-op, I am excited to be able to share with our readers my personal experiences and endeavors at living a greener life. Those of you who've read my personal blog know that I am just beginning this journey of mine. Surely I will have my fair share of setbacks and failures and therefore will be writing purely from a non-guru perspective, which to me is the most honest and entertaining point of view to have. I've learned a great deal from other "green" bloggers and hope that I'll be able to inspire others in my own small way. Until next time!
What are some of the reasons why YOU strive for a greener life?





21 comments:
Thomas, the processed food in the supermarket doesn't worry me... it's those purported "health food shops" that are full of pills!
Hoping we can get some traditional Vietnamese recipes out of you :-)
Welcome, Thomas! Thanks for your wonderful introduction and those amazing photos. Looking forward to reading more from you.
Welcome! I don't often comment but read everyday. I will hop over to your blog as time allows too. Thanks for joining and most for sharing!
cathy c
Hi Thomas,
Thanks for the wonderful first post. I am really looking forward to following your gardening adventures.
Greener life? Healthier me & healthier world. Welcome. :)
Thomas - very nice article! I can only imagine the difficult times that your father saw in his lifetime. I think it's great of you to carry on his beliefs and ways of living.
What a lovely fall garden!
Beatiful and intriguing story. It has me thinking: I do think I'm slowly returning to more of my mom's ways too (some of the same things I rejected during the first many years of marriage/parenthood)because I used to see them as binding, complicated, unnecessary. I am beginning to understand that many of her choices were not about money or expectation or necessity but about creating traditions, a vibrant family life, and expressing her love for us through the meals she prepared, the clothing and costumes she sewed, and so forth. I look forward to more of your writing.
Good to see you here, Thomas, I followed your link from your blog. What a simple, thoughtful post.
The Green label still sometimes irks me, as it's an old way of life with a new name. But my answer is yours.
My mom: I grew up with her extensive vegetable gardens and her cooking, and now, living in a tiny NYC apartment with a tiny terrace, I still cook what I have grown (albeit to a hugely reduced extent!).
The reason is simple. It feels necessary, to my sanity and my humanity. And it is a pleasure.
It's good to read about your dad. Thank you.
Good to see you here Thomas! I've been enjoying your personal blog. This makes it an even smaller world. BTW-I'm going to do a beginning canner post in a few days. It is not too late to start!
Great article Thomas, I really enjoyed it. People like your father deserve so much respect, as children we can't quite understand that yet (at least I couldn't). I look forward to your next contribution- and your garden is looking wonderful!
My health is why. I wasn't always the way I am. After thinking for awhile I figured that my current state of health is because my parents stopped the garden, stopped home cooked meals 7 days a week, and stopped putting up food. I figure, if I return these things to my life I will become healthier.
Welcome, looking forward to more.
Welcome Thomas-that is the most beautiful pie I have ever seen! Looking forward to more inspiration.
I consider you an inspiration, a pioneer and a person who loves everything and shows it multiple ways. Your story is touching and you know we share other friends that suffered in vietnam. Your story is an inspiration for anyone who has suffered and survived. Thanks!
Thomas, this is your sister. I know that this is not a "food" or "gardening" comment but oh how dad would be so proud of you if he were still with us today. He is looking down from heaven and giving you his two green thumbs up for your two green thumbs that you obviously inherited from him. That pic of you and dad made me cry. Wow...what a garden and what a pie!! And yes everyone, he is an amazing cook! I love you and I am so proud of you.
After seeing your "autumn fruit pie" I can't delay any longer - you've made me hungry and I'll HAVE to go to lunch early.
Great garden you have too. It gives me something to aim for. I look forward to having a look at your own blog.
Yes, dad's garden was something amazing! Thanks for bringing back beautiful memories of the simple things in life that can bring much happiness and for inspiring me to try to live and eat healthier too. Your garden looks great in such a short time. See you on Thanksgiving!
Hugs,
K.N.
Hi Tho, it's your oldest Sis. I am so proud of you. It's a wonderful tribute to Dad and a great way to keep his memories alive in our everyday life. We all love and miss him very much. See you on Thanksgiving.
Hi Thomas, this is a wonderful first post. Thank you. I really enjoyed reading about your father and your history and I especially loved your sisters visiting. There is something about families and gardens that makes me feel I will live forever. ;-)
A lovely post, Thomas. Very enlightening and heartfelt. Let us know next time you contribute.
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