I hope the weekend is treating you well. Readers of my personal blog would know that I moved house last month. Someone once told me that moving house is right up there on the list of major stresses in life. And having done it recently, I think one of the causes of this stress is that its one of the few times in life when our stuff-overload blindness (SOB) is ripped off and we see how much stuff we actually have. To save you from clicking on the link, SOB is basically my ramblings on how we use stuff to project our identity but we don't actually see how much stuff we (or others) have.
When I prepared for my move, I was very surprised at how much stuff I had accumulated in the two years since I started my new life as a sole parent. (I started my new life with only a bed, dining room table, kettle, iron and ironing board.)
I had accumulated so much so that I ended up having to declutter again. The declutter consisted of:
- 1 commercial van load of stuff given away
- 1 commercial van load of stuff I sold
- 2 full car loads of stuff sent to the op shop (charity shop)
So now I've realised that in order to keep to the level of "decluttered-ness" that I'm happy with, I have to regularly declutter. And I've realised that the time to declutter (for me) is now. Why?
1. I'm realising that there are now too many instances when I can't find things that I know I have.
2. I am spending a lot of time thinking of storage solutions (do I really need that much storage?).
3. The kids are finding it difficult to keep track of their stuff and to keep their rooms tidy.
4. I keep tripping over stuff.
5. I am starting to feel overwhelmed at what I have to clean-up/tidy-up at the end of the day.
Now I know that my current state of clutter is partly due to the fact that I still have stuff from my old (and bigger) place which don't really fit into my new (and smaller) place. But really, to determine what else has to go its time I take heed of the signs and start decluttering.
So for the month of February, I hope to get rid of a whole heap of stuff. Wish me luck!